Love or Lust @ First Sight

Its been a while since my last blog post, i do admit i’ve been kind of lazy these days plus i was walking through my own personal hell, without the devil as a guide so i wandered like a lost soul on the way to redemption. But anyways, am back, so sit back, adjust your monitor, dim the lights in the room, recline your seat all the way to the back, re-fill your cup and settle down to enjoy another episode of the 80’s Baby.

When in the presence of a member of the opposite sex that you find Hot, cute,, attractive sexy-as-a-motherfucker or all of the above, The feelings are all too familiar, butterflies in the stomach, weakness in the knees, glazing of the eyes and even in some extreme cases, dizziness, (yea some people may faint or pass out) fucking weirdos !

Am not going to quote numbers or polls but I’ll bet if you ask 100 men about the first thing they notice in a woman, 95% of the answers you’ll get will be those 2 magic words ‘Tits & Ass’. They might take it back, especially after you raise an eyebrow or sharply rebuke them and give them a look that implies ‘come on man, are you so vain’? whatever comes next is just an after thought, i can assure you, the truth has been spoken, write it down ! But don’t be alarmed fellas, at least 90 % of ladies will tell you the first thing they notice in a man is his ‘Build & Height’ and if the man was standing butt naked, 100% will notice his lil' soldier first before the color of his eyes.

There are girls that’ll comment on this blog and protest but i can prove it, show me a beautiful woman that is in love with a short, fat, bald and broke man and i might change my opinion. So, how do you fall in love at first sight? Is that really correct, if the first thing you notice about someone is their physical attractiveness, which implies sexuality, that naturally means, first time you set your eyes on them, your mind did the nasty. You don’t notice someone’s personality across the room standing in a corner, but you notice the broadness of his shoulders or the size of her bra, you notice the length of his trousers or the size of her thong (at least you can guess and if you don’t nail it, you would be very close). Is that love or lust ?

I truly will be checking my comments because i am curios on how ya’ll define it. As usual speaking from a guy’s perspective, it is lust, because you don’t want to hold hands and go to the gallery with tits & ass , you want to be indoors, praying it keeps raining outside, phone right by your bed to keep ordering food, and all alone in a dark room with tits & ass. So from the moment you set your eyes on her, everything happens in seconds, you start growing a third leg suddenly, and your lips go dry. This, you horny bastard, is not the feelings of love at first sight, this is pure lust.

Ladies’ll pretend like they got it under control, even if their heart rate does double right after setting eyes on ‘The Man’ and even if within 2 minutes they have married him, had his first baby, and are carrying his second in their mind, day dreaming while wide awake, she’ll still roll her eyes and play it cool because as per rules of society, a woman can’t just go ahead and lust, not if she wants to keep her good name at least, i know a couple of girls that don’t give a fuck, and would tell you, its a free world, true...true, i agree but that's really up to you to decide if you want to be known as a slut or as a good girl. Regardless, the truth is ma'm those feelings are not the symptoms of love at first sight, but pure raw lust.

So do we love @ first sight or do we lust @ first sight? Can you tell the difference? Or can you prove being attracted to someone physically is not the prelude to being attracted to them sexually? I sincerely doubt this, every odd couple you meet (hot wife & ugly husband, cute husband & ugly wife) will always tell you it happened after they got to know each other better, they got to talk, to walk, to try to make it work . I've been here 2.5 decades and i have never seen or met an ordinary ugly ass dude married to a super model or universally accepted hot woman after they fell in love at first sight and don’t you dare mention SEAL and Heidi Klum because that doesn’t count. Why? The man is a millionaire, multi platinum selling artist and a Grammy Winner, he’s far from ordinary and with a voice like that, he doesn’t need the looks or the books on sex, he can sing to her in the dark and she’ll probably orgasm. Go figure !

Your’s Sincerely
A Saint & A Sinner